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Monday, March 19, 2007
My thoughts on...Sara Lawrence's dethroning
Sara Lawrence, Miss Jamaica World 2006, has given up the title prematurely as she is expecting a child. This has caused a lot of controversy, as this has never happened before in the history of the pageant. And in the eyes of many, this occurrence has blemished the sanctity of the crown. Others argue that her pregnancy renders her unable to fulfill her promise to promote safe sex. There's also the fact that her pregnancy violated the terms of her contract. I support her, because she did the honourable thing and carried the child to term. I know if it happened in other countries where family values and morals are less treasured, say the United States, the child would have been aborted. Miss USA would chuck the kid in a ditch and argue that it's her body. I wonder how many Miss World's have secretly had abortions? She represented Jamaica well, placing 6th. She also carried herself with dignity and pride, and that's nothing to be ashamed of.

I think the reason that this has stirred up so much controversy is that though we act as if we're all modern and with the times, our ideal woman is still pure and virginal. And the Miss Jamaica pageant is supposed to represent that. Now our "perfect vision of beauty" has been tarnished. But we have to realize that things are different now, and that times have changed. Miss Lawrence, just hold your head up high and focus on your dreams. You're a beautiful, intelligent woman with a lot to offer. You're still a queen, crown or no crown. Besides, it's not like you're the first scandalized beauty queen. Look at Vanessa Williams. Her name made the tabloids because of scandal, and is still in them, long after all those beauty queens' have faded.
Posted by Leon @ 11:43 AM
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7 Comments:
  • Comment by
    Ricardo
    @ 3:01 PM
    body
    "I know if it happened in other countries where family values and morals are less treasured, say the United States, the child would have been aborted."

    LOL!

    Leon there is plenty of skullduggery going on in Jamaica as well. I knew 2 very nice Jamaican girls in college and they told me all. As far as it happening here, some women would, others would not. Just as would be the case in the home of the great Montego Bay. A quick glance through the Jamaica gleaner reveals as much.

  • Comment by
    Leon
    @ 3:04 PM
    body
    I agree with you partly Ric. Places like MoBay are more "Americanized" due to the tourist influence. Places like Manchester, Trelawny and other rural areas are more traditional. And I'm not saying that women out here wouldn't do it, but they are far less likely to due to the social stigma.

  • Comment by
    taylor2nd
    @ 3:22 PM
    body
    Correct the social aspect definatly wouldn't allow em to do it. Everybody would be talking about it.. "she killed her child for the throne" and so on.
    However what i wanna talk about is the rules, I understand the part about not getting pregnant during yoru riegn.. but what about before.. if someone had a child before the competition and she's the most gorgeous woman in the world she cant enter just because she had a child.. who made these rules..

    are they saying that royaly doesn't have children.. that women cant be beautiful once they become a mother?? wtf is up with that?? someone explain it to me..

  • Comment by
    owen
    @ 3:44 PM
    body
    I don't think many of other Miss Jamaicans need to have abortion or even need to think about it. Research has proven it pretty hard to get sex from anyone of the contestants. Even harder yet, in optimal conditions, to get unprotected sex. But I most likely my research data probably too old to be of any good use nowadays.

  • Comment by
    Ricardo
    @ 5:51 PM
    body
    I agree, the stigma may be much greater. The young women I knew were traditional in the way you speak. I miss hanging out with them. Yes Montego Bay is for tourists I suppose.

  • Comment by
    Crankyputz
    @ 9:11 AM
    body
    The only quib i have with the whole issue is the parents making the sarcastic comment of supporting her despite her choices. Parents support your children in public, she did everything else right....you may not agree with her actions and choices but in public you stand by your blood.

  • Comment by
    Abeni
    @ 4:17 AM
    body
    Motherhood is part of being a woman.What's a crown in the grand scheme of things? Good on her for keeping her child.

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